The Bro Coach® Podcast With Dennis Procopio
You're not here for therapy. You're here for real talk about being a man in a world that keeps shifting the goalposts.
Dennis Procopio is the founder of Man-UP! Life Coaching and the creator of the Bro Coach® Approach. He’s not a guru. He’s a guy who's been through it, figured some things out, and now helps other men do the same. Through straight-up conversations, Dennis helps high-performing men drop the excuses, kill the noise, and get serious about living with purpose.
Each episode serves up practical wisdom forged in fire. No fluff. No emotional hand-holding. Just useful insights that hit where it hurts, speak to what matters, and point toward what works.
If you’ve got success on paper but chaos at home... if you’re grinding hard but still feel off-track... or if you’re just tired of carrying all the weight with nowhere to unload it, this is your space.
Real talk. Clear moves. Purpose-driven masculinity.
Take a breath, man. Let’s get into it.
The Bro Coach® Podcast With Dennis Procopio
Ep 4: The Achiever's Trap: Why Your Success Isn't Making You Happy (And What to Do About It)
You've hit the goals. You've got the career, maybe the house, the body, the respect. So why do you still feel empty? Why does every win feel like it's never enough? And why are you terrified that if you stop grinding, you'll lose everything—including yourself?
Most high-achieving men are caught in the achiever's trap: believing their worth is measured by their performance. You've been conditioned to think love is earned through accomplishments, that you're only as valuable as your last win. But here's the brutal truth: You're chasing self-esteem when what you actually need is self-worth.
In this episode, Dennis Procopio (The Bro Coach®) sits down with Andrew Bontz, COO of Man-UP! Life Coaching, for a raw conversation about the difference between self-worth and self-esteem, why successful men are still miserable, and the surprisingly simple (but uncomfortable) practice that changes everything.
You'll learn:
- The critical difference between self-worth and self-esteem (and why you're optimizing the wrong one)
- Why high-performers suffer from "competency addiction" and how to break free
- The generational programming that's making you hate yourself—and how to rewrite it
- How to father your inner child the way you wish you'd been fathered
- The uncomfortable daily practice that builds unconditional self-love (hint: it's not affirmations)
- Why service to others is the secret backdoor to loving yourself
This episode is for you if:
- You're successful on paper but still feel like you're not good enough
- You can't sit still without your mind attacking you with self-criticism
- You've achieved everything you thought would make you happy—and you're still miserable
- You're tired of measuring your worth against other men and always coming up short
- You want to break the cycle of conditional love you learned from your father
Whether you're a high-achiever burning out, a man who's hit his goals and feels hollow, or someone ready to stop performing for love and start receiving it, this episode offers the blueprint for building real, unshakeable self-worth.
Because at the end of the day, the love you give yourself matters more than any trophy, paycheck, or validation you'll ever chase.
Not red-pill. Not therapy. Just the evolved man's blueprint for self-worth and inner peace.
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